The Monthly Journey

Transform Your Horsemanship Through Deep Connection & Practical Results

Ever noticed how a moment of true connection can transform everything between you and your horse?

And suddenly you and your equine partner are moving as one. These moments of harmony create extraordinary partnerships that shine whether you're competing in the show ring, exploring challenging trails, or simply enjoying a peaceful ride at home.

  

 

WHY JOIN THE MONTHLY JOURNEY?

The Monthly Journey provides the structure, community, and expert coaching you need to progress steadily in your horsemanship. Whether you're working from the ground or in the saddle, whether you're just starting out or refining advanced maneuvers, this program meets you exactly where you are.

Join us now for a free 7 day trial

What Makes this Approach Different:

  • Connection-First Philosophy: Build a partnership based on mutual understanding, creating a willing equine who responds to your subtle cues
  • Results-Oriented Methods: Develop skills that translate to real-world success in competition, on challenging trails, and everyday riding
  • Three-Tiered Learning: Every monthly focus comes with beginning, refining, and advanced levels to meet you where you are
  • Body and Mind Balance: Discover how your center of balance, flexibility, strength, breath, and intention work together to create effortless communication while riding.
  • Quality Over Quantity: Focus on intentional, productive sessions that build confidence and capability in both you and your horse

 Monthly Focus Areas

Each month brings a new exercise or movement to master, complete with:

  • Comprehensive theory explaining the "why" behind the "how"
  • Clear demonstrations through instructional videos
  • Printable handouts to keep with you during practice
  • Adaptations for ground work and riding
  • Three levels of progression to match your experience

Live Monthly Coaching Calls

  • Every second Thursday at noon AZ time
  • Deep dive into the monthly focus with expert guidance
  • Direct answers to your specific questions and challenges
  • Recordings available if you can't attend live

Continuous Community & Support

  • Share your wins, ask questions, and get feedback between calls
  • Connect with fellow horsemanship enthusiasts on the same journey
  • Influence future monthly topics based on your needs and interests
  • Ask ANY horsemanship question, even beyond the monthly focus

 

Tessa Nicolet and Cohesive Horsemanship

 

My journey with horses began in childhood, where I discovered a profound peace in their presence that I rarely found elsewhere. What started as a natural affinity has evolved into a lifelong passion for building genuine partnerships between humans and equines based on mutual trust, confidence, and respect.

As the founder of Cohesive Horsemanship, I blend natural horsemanship principles with elements of French classical dressage and my own philosophy to create a unique approach that honors both horse and human. My method isn't just about techniques—it's about the intention behind everything we do with our equine partners.

My Journey

Growing up horse-crazy, I had the privilege of being the one to put first rides on our young horses. Intuitively, I spent countless hours connecting with them on the ground before ever mounting—building the foundation of trust that would keep us both safe and happy. Years later, a particularly sensitive mare challenged me to formally educate myself in natural horsemanship, forever transforming my approach and opening doors to deeper understanding.

Throughout my professional career, I've completed numerous leadership courses, but the most profound lessons in communication, presence, and empathy have come directly from my equine teachers. They've refined my leadership abilities beyond what any human-centered training could accomplish alone, benefiting both my personal relationships and professional endeavors.

My Philosophy

At the heart of Cohesive Horsemanship lies a simple promise to our equine partners: to communicate with clarity rather than force, to listen before asking, and to approach training as a conversation rather than a command. I believe that true partnership requires participation from both beings, and my greatest joy comes from witnessing the moment when horse and human find that elusive harmony—where communication becomes effortless and boundaries between species seem to dissolve.

I've developed seven core principles that guide everything we do: being an empathetic leader, mastering body language, embracing playfulness and curiosity, maintaining clarity and focus, and continuously studying the art of lightness. These principles aren't just techniques—they're a way of being with horses that transforms both parties.

My Mission

Today, my passion is sharing this journey with others. There's nothing more rewarding than watching a student discover that magical moment of connection with their horse—when resistance transforms into willingness, and true partnership emerges. I take immense pride in helping riders of all levels develop the awareness, timing, and feel necessary to communicate effectively with their equine partners.

My dream extends beyond horsemanship—it's about helping people discover that the lessons horses teach us about presence, authenticity, and clear communication enhance every aspect of our lives. Whether in the arena or the boardroom, these principles create leaders who inspire rather than dominate.

I continue to study with masters across disciplines, always remaining a student first—believing that the journey toward excellence never ends. I invite you to join our community of thoughtful horse people dedicated to evolving together, with our horses as our most profound teachers.

 

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I'm absolutely loving the Monthly Journey program! The content is top-notch, and I really appreciate the flexibility of being able to listen to the lessons while following along with the written materials. The videos are incredibly helpful—Tessa breaks everything down into clear, actionable steps and even shows what to do if things don’t go perfectly, which is so encouraging. The monthly Coaching Call is another highlight—it's informative, interactive, and always a lot of fun. Joining this program has been one of the best decisions I’ve made for my horse training journey!

- Leslie H

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